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Anonymous asked: I'm afraid that if I tell you who I am you'll unfollow me but I disagree with how you treat guys who choose to bareback. I think unprotected sex is their choice and I think it's absurd that you refuse to accept that fact.

First, I won’t unfollow you for merely disagreeing with me. I will unfollow you if you are a strong proponent of barebacking, or if you’re a complete douche. 

Second, you’re wrong. I don’t refuse to accept that they have a choice. I refuse to accept that their choice is anything but absolutely stupid and fucking dangerous. 

HIV infection is on the rise and it has everything to do with this asinine idea that the risks to barebacking are within acceptable parameters. They are not. It’s like playing Russian roulette with your health and your life but lots of fags are morons.

The truth is, no matter what I may say, it’s going to have to cost the health and lives of many stupid little faggots before the larger community wakes up and pays attention to consequences of this behavior. I’ve accepted that unfortunate reality but if I can help at least one impressionable young man from making the mistake of his life, then it’s worth it to me and that’s why I do it. That’s why I’m willing to take all the acrimony the Bareback Brotherhood #BBBH throws at me. —And yes, I do in fact blame many in the Bareback Brotherhood for contributing to this growing tragedy. 

What all this boils down to is a condom. That’s it. A small piece of latex. That’s what ALL this is about - the choice to wear a condom. Think about the sheer absurdity of it.

It’s not like I’m against fucking. I’m not. I love to fuck. It’s like one of my favorite things to do. It’s up there with ice cream. An inexpensive piece of latex vs. your health and your life? I mean, c’mon! That’s a real choice for you? Given the gravity of the consequences, why is this even an issue?

Quite honestly, I just don’t get it. Wearing a condom is such a minor inconvenience in the grand scheme of things that I cannot rationalize why you would even consider not using one given the potential deadly downside. Like I said. I just don’t understand. That’s why I call them stupid faggots because they are stupid faggots. And the guys who promote barebacking are truly evil bastards. 

Anonymous asked: Why are you such a hateful mean person?

You mean, “Why do I have such a strong moral compass?”

Because my parents taught me to stand up for what is right even when others hate me for it.

Or do you mean, “Why am I not all fake and smiley to everyone?’

Because I’m not a superficial person. I say exactly what I think and what I feel, even if that upsets others and their need for cheap sentiment. 

Anonymous asked: I still don't believe you. I think you do care what straight people think.

Listen.

There is no difference between straight people and gay people, not in a significant way that matters. Attraction to a particular set of genitalia is the least interesting thing about a person.

There are always going to be straight assholes who are going to hate on gays no matter what, just as there are always going to be some gays who are total faggots despite being gay… and visa versa. So fucking what?

You’re being a little bit of a faggot for framing this argument in terms of a generality. It’s super retarded. Either ask me something interesting or GTFO.

Anonymous asked: Bullshit. You care. You care a lot.

NO I DON’T. FUCK YOU FAGGOT.

See. I don’t at all,

YOU FUCKING FAGGOT.

LOL

Anonymous asked: You're gay so how do you feel about straight hacker culture always talking shit about fags, faggots and faggotry? Does it offend you?

Seriously? No.

Most of those sorry faggots hardly ever get any pussy anyway. #LULZ

… to be perfectly honest tho, 

straight culture in general

has hated us and denigrated us for so long

that I don’t really give a fuck what they have to say

about anything gay

at all.

darthambiguous replied to your post: Have you ever watched an episode of Glee? Yes, Kurt is a screaming Queen. But his boyfriend would only make a slight blip on a Gaydar. And Karofsky is an interesting portrait of the closeted gay who gay bashes / bullies to try to disguise his true self. To top it off, Kurt’s father is the most unbelievable person on television in the way he supports his son and accepts him for who he is. It’s almost like The Brady Bunch in the way the “ideal world” is portrayed. Which leads to the main point about Glee. EVERYONE in the cast is a caricature that is a million times bigger than reality. Because Glee is essentially a dramady performed as a cheesy high school musical. It’s funny, entertaining, and I’m sure for a lot of kids (and their parents) it’s their only way to see and understand what a lot of outsiders go through. It’s all about saying “everyone is different - show some respect”. Hell, season one they tackled teenage pregnancy. They’ve also touched on depression, treating “special” kids as “normal” kids, and racism. All done in such a flippant manner that the target audience don’t even realise they’re doing “how to behave like a decent human being 101”. So keep bashing Kurt if you must. I just wanted to let you know why I like the show and why I think it’s actually doing the world a favour.

Well aren’t you in a mood today? Did the storms wipe the smile off your face?

It’s not the storm. Having to deal with some unnecessarily stupid people today, wore my patience (and humor) quite thin. My life maybe more privileged than most but it is certainly not without its travails. I trust you’ll be somewhat understanding if I’m not my well-intentioned jovial self. 

darthambiguous asked: Have you ever watched an episode of Glee? Yes, Kurt is a screaming Queen. But his boyfriend would only make a slight blip on a Gaydar. And Karofsky is an interesting portrait of the closeted gay who gay bashes / bullies to try to disguise his true self. To top it off, Kurt's father is the most unbelievable person on television in the way he supports his son and accepts him for who he is. It's almost like The Brady Bunch in the way the "ideal world" is portrayed.

Which leads to the main point about Glee. EVERYONE in the cast is a caricature that is a million times bigger than reality. Because Glee is essentially a dramady performed as a cheesy high school musical. It's funny, entertaining, and I'm sure for a lot of kids (and their parents) it's their only way to see and understand what a lot of outsiders go through. It's all about saying "everyone is different - show some respect".

Hell, season one they tackled teenage pregnancy. They've also touched on depression, treating "special" kids as "normal" kids, and racism. All done in such a flippant manner that the target audience don't even realise they're doing "how to behave like a decent human being 101".

So keep bashing Kurt if you must. I just wanted to let you know why I like the show and why I think it's actually doing the world a favour.

OMG I think I fell asleep there…. 

… what were you saying, something about a screaming queen and….

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

the-secret-life-of-ravens asked: Run for president. You're far more qualified than half the block heads already up there. I'd do it myself, but I have one of those faces that no one would listen to.

That’s a flattering thought but being elected to office would change nothing, no matter how smart and benevolent I may be. 

The problem is systemic and two fold.

  1. There is too much money in politics. Without meaningful campaign finance reform, nothing will change. Corporations will have far too much influence on the political process until that happens. And I hate to be a cynic but that’s not likely to happen because most people are too distracted by people like Sarah Palin to recognize or understand the gravity of why campaign finance reform is so important; and,
  2. “Past The Post” elections are flawed and should be replaced. It’s much simpler if I posted two short videos than try to explain what I mean in words. The first one explains what “past the post” voting is. And the second one explains the alternative vote:

Past the Post

——-

The Alternative Vote

oozingasslips replied to your post: oozingasslips replied to your post: oozingasslips…

A veritable banquet of Spam cooked sebenty-leben different ways, in honor of your Hawai’ian heritage.

Oh wow, catering to stereotypes, literally. What’s not more appetizing than that? Now, if the witty repartee is equally crapulous, I’d be daft to refuse. 

wonderfulment replied to your post: The world would be a much better place without lawyers, politicians, old people, used car salesmen, psychics and priests. The list grows. Thank you, contributors ;)

Vegans! Fuck Vegans!

Sorry but vegans don’t fuck shit up. They may smell bad and not get enough protein to lift a shovel but they aren’t fucking shit up for everyone.

darthambiguous replied to your post: darthambiguous replied to your post: The world…

The world would still be a much better place without it. And venomous snakes. I don’t like them either. & chewing gum. & people who chew chewing gum with their mouths open. & people who drop chewing gum on the ground. Add all three to the list.

I wrote about this already. It’s not Capitalism’s fault (which is merely an economic system) but Democracy’s problem (which is a political system). Capitalism has been quite successful. It’s the reason you have the ability to bang away on Tumblr despite the fact that you aren’t the most financially successful individual on the planet. Democracy has failed to keep Capitalism in check. Capitalism is a wild heartless hungry tiger and needs to be treated as such. Without capitalism, nothing else would function - not education, not local government, not science, not sci-fi films, nothing. Everything we rely upon works because of capitalism. If you have another economic system that you can prove works (and by prove, I actually mean PROVE) then I want to hear it.

Thank you but I’ve had quite enough of the “fantasy sci-fi” perspective on reality. It bothers me greatly that so many people are not educated enough to understand both, to the degree that they have a real grasp about what they are talking about. 

Anonymous asked: Why do you look at me
Like I'm some stranger now?
Why do you pull away
When you used to hold me so tight?

Don't you love me anymore?
Have your learned to live your life without me?
Don't you love me, anymore?
When did the fire go out?
Where did the feeling go?
Did it slip away when I wasn't there?

Was it me who wasn’t there?

Or was you who didn’t care?

Why do you ask me this now

Not when I was lying next to you?



Why bring this back up?

Why now when I am no longer there?

How is it you can ask me this now

About what happened to you and I? 

How could I have slipped away

When you were never there?

darthambiguous replied to your post: The world would be a much better place without lawyers, politicians and old people.

And capitalism.

You understand that “capitalism” is a thing, not a specific vocation, right?

oozingasslips replied to your post: oozingasslips replied to your post: oozingasslips…

Well, it would underscore for you why I should just die already, and would certainly put me in the mood to go quickly. Everyone wins!

lol…. I see. Will there be food?


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